Karen’s Korner,
I read an article the other day that states that there are: “Things Older Adults Are Sick and Tired of Hearing at This Point in Life.” The author is Novem Mari.
Why, you don’t look your age: “While often intended as a compliment, this comment implies that looking your age is somehow undesirable. It reinforces the idea that youth equals value, which is not only outdated but untrue!”
You’re too old for that: “Whether it’s a Boomer taking a dance class or a Millennial picking up a new hobby, hearing this, feels like an unnecessary judgment. Why should age determine what someone can or cannot do?”
You should act your age: “For Boomers, stereotypes that don’t match the reality of their active, engaged lives. Acting your age should mean living authentically and doing what brings you joy, whether that’s dancing at a concert, taking up rollerblading, or wearing bold fashion choices.”
Are you sure you can handle that: “Having your capabilities questioned simply because of your age is frustrating at best!”
You must be so lonely: “Boomers are often deeply connected to their communities, whether through volunteer work, hobbies, or strong family ties.”
When are you going to retire: “Not everyone wants to retire at 65, and for some, continuing to work provides purpose and fulfillment. In our society today.” Besides, there are more and more seniors entering or staying in the workplace today and in the future that number will grow! According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, 9.5% of the civilian labor force is expected to be older than 65 by the year 2030.
You’re set in your ways: “This phrase unfairly paints older adults as inflexible or resistant to change. Boomers have lived through decades of societal and technological shifts, often adapting with resilience and grace!”
There are many choices, decisions, and actions to take as a senior adult. You are very capable and able to decide for yourself. Don’t let the naysayers get you down. Age is just a number. Stay young at heart and keep that sassy positive attitude as long as you can. After all, “Seniors rule!”