Karen’s Korner,
Wisdom, life experiences, and a clearer sense of what truly matters make a difference in the life of a senior adult, however, aging also brings “a steady stream of comments and questions that can feel patronizing, outdated, or downright frustrating,” according to an article on MSN!
For example, there are some statements that bother or irritate some seniors. Those statements often reflect societal stereotypes about aging that fail to capture the diverse, vibrant lives people continue to lead as they grow older, and that’s why it’s time to retire these clichés for good.
“You Don’t Look Your Age: While often intended as a compliment, this comment implies that looking your age is somehow undesirable. It reinforces the idea that youth equals value, which is not only outdated but untrue.” (MSN)
“You Are Too Old For That:” Age certainly doesn’t determine what one can or cannot do. Life doesn’t stop after 50 or 60 for sure, not even after 70 or 80, for that matter. As long as you are able…go for it.
“You Should Act Your Age.” “Acting your age should mean living authentically and doing what brings you joy, whether that’s dancing at a concert, taking up rollerblading, or wearing bold fashion choices.” (MSN)
“Are You Sure You Can Handle That?” My answer would be, I am the only one who knows if I can or can’t. It’s not up to anyone else to decide.
“You Must Be So Lonely.” “This assumption that older adults are lonely or isolated doesn’t hold up. Boomers are often deeply connected to their communities, whether through volunteer work, hobbies, or strong family ties.” (MSN)
When Are You Going To Retire?” As long as a senior is physically, mentally and emotionally healthy, work becomes a great pastime and provides purpose.
“You Are Set In Your Ways.” “This phrase unfairly paints older adults as inflexible or resistant to change. Boomers have lived through decades of societal and technological shifts, often adapting with resilience and grace.” (MSN)
And last but not least: “You Shouldn’t Be Doing That at Your Age.” “Whether it’s dating, traveling, or taking up extreme sports, this judgmental remark has no place in today’s world. Everyone deserves the freedom to live authentically and pursue what makes them happy, regardless of age.” (MSN)
So, there you go…..Enjoy every moment the Good Lord gives you!